Well... I just tried to search for them and found them to be a little scarce even online. They make both purses and fanny packs, which are handy.
Here's my carry purse, and the little hidden pocket that velcros up with only the strap hanging out.
The way mine is designed, if you had concerns, say walking through a parking lot at night, you put your hand through the strap of the gun and walk. If someone bothered you, you can tug and have the gun loose... or... by design, if someone grabs the purse, the purse breaks loose (let them have it) and leaves you holding the gun. That alone is bound to cause some interesting expressions in a mugger. ;~D
Becky, glad your scary situation turned out with you safe... What a tough situation that is... I'd have felt a little obligated to help too... My fear would be if you closed the door on him, he's still on your property and what might he do?