[Dashing Dasher]

Yes, I also unknowingly dated a married guy.
I asked all the right questions, I had my MarriedGayRadar going the whole time and STILL missed it.

He had created this elaborate cover story..
...They divorced, she remarried an attorney and their son lived part time with each parent and all was well!

After it came to light, I called his wife and told her. I told her all the things he said about her and his elaborate story.

I wonder if they are married today?

;-?

[Millee]

If so, then she's a fool. And good for you telling the wife. Give her some good lawyer ammo.

I was only 18 at the time, but thought I was sooooo sophisticated dating an older guy. I don't remember if there were signs or not (even though it was only 5 years ago..eh-hem...) but I think I was too naive to even look for signs.