There is that fine line between friendship and dating. If he had told you about being married during the previous converstations and then suggested lunch, would you have done it? He may looked at as a friendship lunch or he may have been looking for more, who knows.
You know, if he'd mentioned his wife earlier in conversations, then suggested meeting for lunch to finalize business, I would have been OK with it. I wouldn't have been in 'date' mode but in 'geez, I hate all this bank crap' mode.
We are both do-it-yourselfers, so he talked a lot about the things he'd done to his home too. We compared war stories. Not once did he imply that someone ELSE lived in that house with him. Which I think you would do if you were married. Especially during a 'no-kitchen for 3 months' renovation.
Hrmpt.
And Millee,
Tenjewberrymuds,
I now have "Afternoon Delight" running through my head too!