take a good look at yourself in the mirror and date within your species.
Many men I know who are between a 4-6 on the looks scale won't date anything less than a 9.5 and they wonder why they don't go out much.
My point was... take a really good look at yourself and date someone who is in your league. If you are a balding, beer bellied, slob - you aren't getting a gorgeous hottie. Unless you're R$I$C$H$.