I recently had a similiar experience and I don't trust people but somehow he manged to get to me (Romantic charm, wit, brains & masculine helped him a bit!)
LOL! Yeah, I know. Same with these two. Since they were diametrically opposed on the scale of what to look for in a man, I thought I was safe after Disaster #1. WRONG!
I am sticking with my dog now. He is far more interesting and loving. He would never let me down or hurt me.