Dang, if you had put just a little effort into cleaning yourself up and acting interested in her feelings, wants, and desires you would find yourself having to date after divorce.
No doubt. It sounds to me like the man was deceitful before marriage, pretending to be clean and caring when he had no intention of being that way once he caught his bait. And that is despicible.
Yep. Any guy like that is doomed to repeat his mistakes unless he changes HIMSELF! Don't expect a woman to try to change you. We are smarter than that. :)