call me crazy, but I say go... you just might learn something, and grow closer as a couple... you have nothing to lose... it'll clear your conscience, and get his folks off'n yer back...
that said, if'n you don't go, I'll still respect yuh...
I hope so, 'cuz we decided not to do it, post at 509. It would be a 'heck' weekend, driving home two hours to try to tend critters each night from Bellevue, getting up at 0'Dark:thirty to head back up there again. I think we'd end up tired and cranky rather than more 'one'. How bout if we find our own ways to be one that weekend? :~D