he needs something decent for 5 years! xshub is going to hork me off i think. he knows i think 20 is significant, and he is pooh-poohing it, saying 25 is significant, 20 isn't. he also said he has ordered the garden fountain that i had mentioned wanting, as an anniversary gift. i said divorce proceedings will be initiated instantly....
Garden fountain sounds cool, but not as an anniversary gift!