I would not send it, Libby, because of the sensitive nature of your job.
I guess I was thinking that reading the discussion of what most people thought of something that she apparently either denies altogether, or somehow thinks is "normal," might be helpful.
There wouldn't be a problem with me sending her such a link myself, with my name on it (as long as I didn't identify myself as someone posting on the forum); it's just that I thought she might be more receptive to the message if she received it from someone she didn't associate with my position.