Chad, you're better than that. Remember they are in the ultimate parental Hell, and have probably been without sleep for days.
I know, but to blame the one man in Florida who has done more to help them than anyone else smacks either of them being seriously unappreciative, or they are getting talking points from the Randall Terry/Alan Keyes camp...
I shouldn't blame them, I agree. The agenda-driven people whispering in their ears are to blame.