[Timeout]

Yes. I feel very strongly that she should be turned over to her parents for care, but I have no confidence that will happen. I went on a couple of the threads...the heat was so intense I had to boogey out before I got burned.

[mountaineer]

I certainly have views on the subject (especially as we had to face the issue as my father lay helpless from Alzheimers, being fed through a tube in a nursing home), but all this talking about it and the namecalling and heated arguments are just wearying and unproductive.

[pubmom]

I feel as you do, give her to her parents. No amount of debate on the subject will change my mind, so I'm staying away from those threads. I work with/around palliative care patients and their families twice a week, and I can't say the poor woman falls in that category.

I'm finding it more productive to pray for her than to rehash the same arguments over and over again.