My heartfelt prayers to you and your family
I have a son with Aspergers syndrome, and special babies like this are a gift from God, and I have no doubt about this. My son is a blessing to me every day, and I would not trade him for a million dollars. I was devastated also, thinking that it was my fault he was this way, but I have realized that he is a precious gift. Never forget that our Lord gave you this special little girl for a reason. Rejoice in that knowledge, for God never gives us anything He knows we cant handle.