Well, I sometimes answer earlier in a thread (post #119) and think others automatically know my point. LOL
I already have curly hair. :-)
Did you also know that women's shelters were beget by lesbians back in the 70's, I think. I sure didn't know much when I started working there about anything!
And lesbians have a HUGE problem with abuse!
Yes, lesbians have big problems with abuse and also with men. And think they know more about everything than straight women. Sometimes they do.
Problem is, they're often in high positions in social services where they can carry out their anti-family agenda. It's a big mess.
Having said that, I do know lesbians who are among the best and brightest. But they chose other avenues of employment.
Has the shelter where you work sheltered bashed up lesbians? Or do they have other places to go?