[Max Combined]

"Your wife is desiring to have a child ASAP"

You need to reflect a little longer and reread the original post again, where the lad talks about his son.

So much for paying attention to any advice you may give,

[Remole]

You are correct. My bad. So the situation is that there is an existing and not a potential child, and the mother is afraid every day that the father is not reliable.