We've really, come to think of it, only heard ONE SIDE OF THE STORY here.
The poster may be sincere and telling us all. Then again, possibly not. Maybe there is something left out for convenience sake that would have caused most wives to have left ages ago. I can't offer any true advice as I don't have the whole picture.
I must say, though, this thread sure is a combination of seriousness, jokes, spirituality and crass securalism...all rolled into one. FR is great!
Personally, whenever I post threads revealing intimate details about my personal life and asking for advice about it, I'd prefer it if everyone just keep their opinions to themselves.