Last year for Christmas I got her a certificate to a day spa. She ain't had time to use it yet...
If I ask her what she wants she'll say "I want to get away."
And I'll say, "You're the one that don't want me to keep a gun in the house..."
Take her out on a date! Preferably someplace with a piano bar.... and talk about anything but kids and nanas :~)
I'd write her a poem and maybe sing a song to her at the bar with the piano...get her a gift certificate for a cleaning lady or someone to watch the kids one night so you can do something fun or romantic together...If she likes excitement, get her a certificate to skydive!
Congratulations! 18Years!
Mrsnad