Ida,
God's plan is to throw adulterers, liars, homosexuals, thieves and all sin into the lake of fire. Because you don't want to believe that doesn't mean it won't happen.
Sure, God is a God of love, that doesn't mean, lovey-dovey huggy-kissy love. Love isn't what you feel, love is what you do. God so LOVED the world he GAVE His only Son...
God is a just God and His words are true. He will do as he said he will do. He doesn't care what you believe, He knows what he will do.
God's love means being true to His word and His laws are set. He will not waiver.
Forgiveness and repenting from sin is the only answer. Homosexuality is a sin that is an abomination to God and will be "cleansed" in the lake of fire.
God is not mocked, just because you want some sin to be ok, doesn't mean it is OK with God.