You ask not for understanding, your transparent desire is complete control over the parameters of debate.
Your decision to compare the lives of unborn living children to weeds is disgusting. I am never virulently anti-abortion/pro-life, except when people bring up these completely disgusting analogies of children as weeds and flowers. And only during these times do I identify with those who shout the slogan "I am a survivor"
And I'll call you out, it's taken directly from old NOW literature.
Using Alinsky techniques here won't get you any respect.
that analogy did not exist. if you saw it, it's because you wanted to see it.