Guess not! I think six months would be the longest I could wait, personally, and preferably it'd be juuust long enough to plan things and no more. But they didn't want to have it in the winter because of travel concerns, and wanted more planning time than just fall...I guess. I don't completely understand their reasoning!
And yeah, he's still in San Fran., and she's in Tacoma. They're gonna spend a fortune on phone calls, I imagine! And Ben is planning on flying up once in awhile, too. That's gonna add up fast!
I can't imagine not doing it by Christmas. They'll want to get together anyhow! And to be apart the whole time! Where will they live after the wedding?
Oh well.... ecurbh and I waited longer than we needed to actually marry, but for us it was either elope or wait till his family was out of school for summer. And they wanted us to wait! I guess once we wereliving in sin anyway, what's a couple more months.