well you delicate sensitive little thing you! does wifey have to do your clothes separately? i do the clothes of 5 people in my house and they are broken down by light, white and dark. period.
LOL!
No, she found a fabric softener that I don't react to.
(I usually try to do my clothes myself, but then teh white socks turn grey because I toss 'em in with the black socks and my pants.)