Well, in a way we're having a groom's cake. That day is my parents' 39th anniversary, so we are having a cake for them too. And we may have the best man (my older brother) toast them instead of us.
I musta missed that! That is VERY cool ecurbh!!! It will make the whole thing much more special! :-)
Cool. Weddings are really about family anyway. Inclusion is good.
I went overboard with my second marriage. Bloody ceremony mechanics wiped out everything that day. We had a fight our wedding night. It went downhill from there...