[RosieCotton]

Just invite them when you're willing to clean up after them.

That's prolly what it'll come down to.

It isn't that they're intentionally trying to make my life hard. It's just that it doesn't OCCUR to them to do things any other way. And if I constantly point things out time and time again, I feel like a horrible nag...which they already see me as.

Time for a meeting.

[2Jedismom]

You could just leave them there. LOL!!! That's the passive-aggressive way of handling it! ROFLOL!!!!

Two weeks later, dirty dishes have gardens of mold growing on them.

"Rosie! Why don't you clean this mess up??"

"Cause I didn't make it."

LOL....not likely to happen, but kinda funny to imagine.

I just find it astounding that they don't automatically help you! Boy, if they ever get married, they are gonna think you are milk toast compared to what their wives are gonna do to them! I can't see that flying for much longer than the honeymoon period! LOL

[Overtaxed]

Heh. Just stop having them over.