[2Jedismom]

Also though, and the reason why I feel like I can't discuss this with her is this...she made a concession to let Matthew into the den in the first place. In the whole first place, I'm obligated to her. Then, you know...she was supposed to have supervised the making of the bear and we didn't show up, so in her kindness, she allowed him to take the whittling test (which he aced 100%).

So I'm deeply obligated to her...to the point where she can insult me (I don't think she's aiming any of this at Matthew, really).

My options are to weather it...it's half over, or quit and go to another den, which is against my nature all together!

[RosieCotton]

So I'm deeply obligated to her...to the point where she can insult me

Huh-uh. Not so. Obligated, maybe...though I doubt even that.

But she has NO right to insult you, especially in a snide, indirect manner. That's just wrong.