What I Saw And Heard In Washington: Groyperism's Spread Among Generation Z Conservative Apparatchiks Is Real

Subastack ^ | November 11, 2025 | Rid Dreher

[cgbg]

These are relevant post because as Breitbart said:

“politics is downstream from culture”.

Those who have not lived the experience of young men are just not qualified to critique them.

The new generation is entitled to create its own frame, its own politics—without old timers finger wagging and heckling from the stands.

[ckilmer]

Rasmussen recently posted that the effect of loomer and others attacks on Fuentes and anyone who did not condemn him has been to mainstream Fuentes. So loomer winds up being the enemy of Israel for being the great enabler.

[pissant]

They just need to be less picky re. women. I always tell young men all you need to look for is a perfect pair of legs. Feet on one end and a ***** on the other.

[Jonty30]

Really? On the left is the unregulated sexual activity of females. Most males cannot date their equals, because 80% of men are viewed as unattractive, based on surveys. On the right is when society practices monogamy.

Sexual freedom vs Monogamy

[pissant]

it was a joke, and a good (and old) one at that!

[Jonty30]

I’m so sorry. I didn’t realize you were joking.
There are many people out there who aren’t aware of the new female culture. They honestly think that it’s the man’s fault if he can’t interest a woman.

Although I’m sympathetic to any good man whose woman has left him, I can show you videos of Steven Crowder lambasting men for not being able to date or when their woman leaves, as if it’s the fault of the man. Steven Crowder actually thought that and he thought he had his situation under control, until his wife left him.

One of the more humorous videos about this was a leftist podcaster named Destiny. He was also of the opinion that only losers lose their wives and he thought he had it under control. He even went so far as to go on red pill shows to tell those who went through this that it was their fault and it would never happen to him.

This is despite the fact that red-pill hosts told him that his wife would leave him and even explained to him what his wife would do to him before she left, step by step. It came true after a short while and everything that he was told would happen did happen.

When the news broke that Destiny’s wife left him, the red-pill community sniggered about it. It wasn’t because they wanted him to come to harm, as many reached out to him to offer him an opportunity to talk and offer condolence. It’s just that he was such an arrogant putz about his self-assurance that he had everything under control and everybody else were at fault when their wives left them.

[grey_whiskers]

There is more to it, which would probably require two or three vanities of medium length to explain. A surface level summary would also include the following. 1) Women are solipsistic, e.g., the world revolves around them. This is has several consequences.

a) Women think that insofar as men are different from women, it means that men are inherently defective, abnormal.

b) Women do not know that man have any problems at all, because they are focused on themselves.

c) To the extent women even NOTICE men, it is only the 6-foot-6-figures-6pack types...and therefore, since those men are matching with women all the time, and are unfaithful, that means ALL men have all the women they want, whenever they want, and will never commit, and are unfaithful.

d) It never occurs to them about the other men, because those men literally are invisible to them. If one of the other men happens to appear, they are either rejected immediately with an "ick" or used as beta orbiters: handymen, errand runners, emotional support tampons at 2AM when Chad has cheated on them or dumped them. These men are rewarded with a "you're such a GOOD friend!"

e) The women fail to see the parallelism, between the Chads who will match them and then pump and dump them, and the "nice guys" whom the women treat like dirt. It's an abundance mentality. The difference is, the men do not think they are entitled to sex-and-THEN-commitment from the women rejecting them which is what the women think they deserve from Chad; the rejected men don't understand why they aren't even matched, or ghosted mid-sentence, and can't even get their foot in the door for a first date to show their non-jerk qualities.

Oh, and the women have positive contempt for the men they see as beneath them: "Women aren't a vending machine where you drop in attention and romance comes out!"

True; but they see Chad as a vending machine where they drop in easy sex with NO preconditions and a wedding ring, high social status, exclusivity, and all his money falls out.

[grey_whiskers]

Have you ever watched Hoe Math on YouTube?

[Jonty30]

Yes, maybe not the particular video you might be thinking of. However, when those qualities are inputted, the odds of a male who qualifies gets pretty small.

[Jonty30]

I think what drives female hypergamy, in part, is that women are competing against each other and it is considered a loss if they dont get a male with the 3-6’s or 4-6’s.

[grey_whiskers]

Their entitlement is shown by their indignant answer to the question “...and just what do YOU bring to the table?”

“I *AM* the table !”

Reality hits hard soon after hitting the Wall.

[jimwatx]

A debate between Dreher and Fuentes would be interesting. I wonder if Dreher would be open to that?