My wife taught in a Bed Stuy school years ago and the moms would tell her that after three or four really bad experiences with men looking for love and affection with a woman became quite reasonable.
If they selected 3 or 4 bad ones perhaps, they should look in a mirror at their choices.
The tattooed gangster ebonic speaking black lesbos love identifying with the democrat plantation hood ‘culture’, but ironically don’t like how their hood men treat them. Can’t blame them. But what a statement about the culture they willingly identify with. Quite the life negating paradox.