There were no women doing the military duty I had when I was young and single so I ended up with someone from a totally different career field. I found military women understood my duty and put up with it better than civilians.
When I ended up in a Joint Billet in DC one of my single co-workers always had the single women in our Agency fawning all over him but he never dated any of them. He always said "Never sh!t where you work." Always a good idea to keep work separate from love.
Don’t fish off the company pier