Groomers it is.
On a very serious note, I was unfortunately a sexually abused child. (Lots of therapy and I can talk about it now). And it started by “talking to me” about sex. Showing pictures. In fact, it was usually always worked into a conversation somehow. Talking about it is how they start.
I can attest to this very personally. This whole issue just makes me LIVID and sick to my stomach.