On a very serious note, I was unfortunately a sexually abused child. (Lots of therapy and I can talk about it now). And it started by “talking to me” about sex. Showing pictures. In fact, it was usually always worked into a conversation somehow. Talking about it is how they start.
I can attest to this very personally. This whole issue just makes me LIVID and sick to my stomach.
I’m sorry, but very happy you are pointing out that talking to little children about aex is grooming.