I don’t get this. I got married. I went to school (night classes). Then she went to school ( night classes). Went to community college then State University. I did elec eng she did comp sci. We had kids in the mix. We enjoyed it. It’s a lot of work but doable without borrowing. Grandparents helped with babysitting sometimes. They loved it. Kids love being with grandparents.
All it takes is a little planning and not all that much sacrifice.
Liberals repeat the lie that half of all marriage end in divorce, so it is safer and freer to never marry. They lie that just living together is as stable as marriage, when in reality, 85% split in 10 years (with kids) whereas 75% of married couples with kids remain married that long.