She says it would break her heart if he wore the uniform. I agree that there needs to be policing reform but she says that him being a police officer is non-negotiable. She fears that police officers rape women.
Tell her yes there are some bad cops. But not vey many in reality. By and large, first responders are well respected in society.
She is allowing for fear and paranoia to be the guiding forces in her life. Most folks try to stay away from such negative trouble-magnets whenever possible.
Sometimes you attract what you put out.
It can start over nothing.
A simple look can provoke this sort of response:
“What the **** are YOU Lookin’ at, you dumb MF???”
We have all met people like that. The best thing is not to react at all or even give eye contact. This is somebody with
a big mouth and a weak ego.
THANK GOD she's safe.
She just has to tell the oinkers her "Preferred Pronoun", and it's ALL GOOD.