Well, for one thing, the shallowness of the focus on looks is one symptom of what’s wrong.
Our society and culture are so messed up. Marriage really needs two sane people to make it work and it seems like there’s not many of those left.
society now’fosters the insane between people. now only’one has to want to screw the other one and govt is there to ream out the other person on behalf of the other one.