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Seriously, Some Times It’s You
Michelle Obama's Mirror ^ | 4-14-17 | MOTUS

Posted on 04/14/2017 5:26:30 AM PDT by NOBO2012

calvin not responsibleI recall once having lunch with a female colleague who was complaining vociferously for the millionth time about not advancing fast enough in the corporation. Her boss was a misogynist, he was always giving the best projects to the men in her department – who only had engineering degrees while she held both an engineering degree and a law degree – both from the University of Michigan! Bunch of chauvinist pigs (that term was still popular in the early 80’s).

As I mentioned, this was about the millionth lunch hour I’d spent listening to her whine about how much more educated, smarter and capable she was than all her co-workers, and how her superior intelligence and skills were overlooked simply because she was a woman. She had embraced the sisterhood of the traveling victims society long before it was so lucrative. Apparently mistaking me for a member of her sisterhood she seethed on and on about all the unfair exclusionary behavior her boss and male colleagues practiced, including never inviting her to join them for lunch. This was not a problem I encountered in my own department; not to boast, but I was a pretty popular lunch companion and in fact had passed up an invite to our Friday staff lunch in order to honor my prior commitment to Ms. Wendy of the Unwavering Whine.

calvin on self-awareness

So perhaps her complaint about never being invited to join the boys reminded me that I was missing the beer, pizza, jokes and good natured camaraderie that comprised Friday lunches back in the day. Whatever the reason, her complaint drew a rather direct (and, I acknowledge, probably insensitive) response: I heard myself saying to her  “maybe it’s nothing as pernicious as misogyny, maybe they just don’t like you.”  I can still see the stunned look on her face; she was a beautiful woman and quite smart but totally tone deaf to anyone other than herself. As a result she was quite lacking in the social graces.  I suspect nobody had ever spoken to her so bluntly in her entire life.

Anyway, I hadn’t thought of that long ago lunch for over 30 years but this story reminded me of it: 

Bill and Hillary Clinton made no secret of the fact they blame campaign staffers for her defeat in the presidential election, according to a new book about her failed bid.

“She was visibly, unflinchingly pissed off at us as a group,” an unnamed staffer said in the book, according to an excerpt obtained by The Hill. “And she let us know she felt that way.”

The book reveals the former secretary of state was full of excuses for why she faired poorly against Vermont Sen. Bernie Sanders in the primary and President Donald Trump in the general election. Jonathan Allen and Amie Parnes co-authored the book, titled “Shattered: Inside Hillary Clinton’s Doomed Campaign.”

Reportedly furious after a dismal showing in the primaries, Clinton manufactured multiple reasons for her performance. She blamed her former campaign director Robby Mook for not selecting the right travel stops and for spending heavily in the wrong areas…. 

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“The underlying truth — the one that many didn’t want to admit to themselves — was the person ultimately responsible for these decisions, the one whose name was on the ticket, hadn’t corrected these problems. - Daily Caller

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Yeah, seriously; sometimes it’s just you.

calvin as victim

A blessed Good Friday to all believers:

good friday

I’ll be on the road the next few days, so play nice in the sandbox and don’t leave any “treats” behind for the dogs. Oh, and congrats on the arrival of new BooKitty, Boo! Just in time for Easter.

Posted from: Michelle Obama’s Mirror


TOPICS: Humor; Politics
KEYWORDS: berniesanders; donaldtrump; hillaryclinton; robbymook
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To: NOBO2012

Robby Mook selecting the wrong travel stops for Hillary and spending heavily in the wrong states elected Trump.

Hillary’s lack of likability and lack of trustworthiness elected Trump.
[I don’t know how something this absurd got mentioned, but someone at U.S. News & World Report had the nerve to suggest this outrageous possibility, so I listed it.]

Self-hating women elected Trump.

Hillary’s campaign team failing to hone her message and get voters to the polls elected Trump.

Wikileaks elected Trump.

FBI investigation elected Trump.

Email scandal elected Trump.

Men elected Trump.

Misogyny elected Trump.

FBI Director Comey elected Trump.

Lower-level FBI agents pressuring their Director (because that’s how professional relationships work) elected Trump.

Tim Kaine gave Hillary Virginia, but he also elected Trump.

White women elected Trump.

The Russians elected Trump.

Racists elected Trump.

Sexists elected Trump.

Rural voters elected Trump.

The working class voting against their own interests elected Trump.

Fake news elected Trump.

Facebook elected Trump.

Supermarket tabloids elected Trump.

Celebrity (The Apprentice) elected Trump.

White male resentment elected Trump.

Over-shaming Trump supporters elected Trump.

Rejecting Bernie elected Trump.

Reagan democrats elected Trump.

Gary Johnson and Jill Stein voters elected Trump.

Backlash against political correctness elected Trump.

There are many terrible reasons for President Trump’s victory, but there are two things that were not a factor. First, Hillary was the perfect candidate; nothing she did harmed her candidacy in any way. Second, President Trump was the worst candidate imaginable; nothing he did helped his candidacy at all, except with racists, sexists, bigots, and the rest of the basket of deplorables.


21 posted on 04/14/2017 10:00:05 AM PDT by Pollster1 ("Governments derive their just powers from the consent of the governed")
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To: Bobalu

My boss’s tagline: “there is no limit to what a man can do so long as he cares not a whit who gets the credit.”


22 posted on 04/14/2017 10:27:36 AM PDT by ctdonath2 (It's not "white privilege", it's "Puritan work ethic". Behavior begets consequences.)
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To: fella
I miss Calvin & Hobbs.

Oh, yeah!

And B.C., Wizard of ID, Broomhilda, Far Side, Hagar the Horrible...

23 posted on 04/14/2017 11:18:53 AM PDT by BwanaNdege ("The church ... is not the master or the servant of the state, but the conscience" - Luther)
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To: Jamestown1630

Agreed...there is a lot of truth to your comment


24 posted on 04/15/2017 5:19:33 AM PDT by major_gaff (University of Parris Island, Class of '84)
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To: FateAmenableToChange
Unless you are the lone white male heterosexual libertarian/conservative evangelical Christian in your workplace. Then the problem is probably them.

Spent a long time in a place that was like that village scene in the film Naked Prey. Had a buddy who said "always keep em laughing". Only way to prevent yourself from being turned on a spit over an open fire. You're expected to supply the Louisiana Hot Sauce.

25 posted on 04/15/2017 5:30:43 AM PDT by Stentor
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