I am so sorry all that happened to you.
I know in the early days of my marriage I had some of these traits. It was the fallout from the repressed anger of what I saw growing up. My husband is so patient and loving. I wish I could talk to young men and women and tell them all that anger is effective for one thing only: pushing people out of your life.
I came to Jesus in 1998. I now thank the Lord for my husband.
I hope you haven’t soured on all women although I could understand if you did. Many women have experienced the same and feel the same too. It’s such a colossal waste of time and life is too short. May you find peace and happiness.
Women don’t have a monopoly on being a-holes...and neither do men.
Hubby's first wife was like one of these women. How he got out of that mess, I'll never know. But I made up my mind when we were dating that it would be a lot easier to appreciate him than it would be to fight with him. We only had 30 years, and he's been gone 15 years, but those 30 were as happy as anyone could ever hope for. Thank God for him and what he was willing to invest into the relationship, and that I had the wits to try to outdo him in the "giving" department.