Posted on 12/28/2016 11:24:58 AM PST by rhett october
Does your wife yell, scream, and swear at you? Do you feel like you can’t talk to anyone about your relationship because they just wouldn’t understand? Is your relationship making you feel like you’re slowly going crazy?
If so, you’re probably involved with a woman who is an emotionally abusive bully. Most men don’t want to admit that they’re in an abusive relationship. They describe the relationship and their wife using other terms like crazy, emotional, controlling, bossy, domineering, constant conflict, or volatile. If you use words like this to describe your relationship, odds are you’re being emotionally abused.
Do you recognize any of the following behaviors?
1) Bullying. If she doesn’t get her way, there’s hell to pay. She wants to control you and resorts to emotional intimidation to do it. She uses verbal assaults and threats in order to get you to do what she wants. It makes her feel powerful to make you feel bad. People with a Narcissistic personality are often bullies.
Result: You lose your self-respect and feel outnumbered, sad, and alone. You develop a case of Stockholm Syndrome, in which you identify with the aggressor and actually defend her behavior to others.
2) Unreasonable expectations. No matter how hard you try and how much you give, it’s never enough. She expects you to drop whatever you’re doing and attend to her needs...
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No.
Sadly, my mother.
It reads exactly like the type of stuff Dr. Laura Schlesinger used to say which got her chased right off of terrestrial radio.
I don’t treat anyone this way, and I will not be treated this way by anyone.
Yep. She’s the poster child for an abusive spouse.
I know how you feel
Easy to say when you haven’t been there.
Does your wife approve of you reading this?
Only on the good days...
With your hat. You put it on and you leave. Works for me.
Ash tray thrower??
Ho Lee Chit.
I was with this chick for a long time...
No one understood it and I will never allow it again.
as to: 9) Withholding affection and sex, I got past that in my early 20’s.
“Oh, you want to use sex as a weapon? No problem. I never had a problem finding women before you and none were ever coated in gold anyway.
Have fun....by yourself”
Watching and listening to Hillary Clinton actually made me feel a little sorry for Bill.
A man does not need a lot of support to pack his shit and move.
LOL
Having a really hot girlfriend will allow one to tolerate that for a while. I had one about 5 years back. Smoking hot. All sweet and lovey dovey... At first... then the claws started sticking in one by one. It was like walking on egg shells. A terrible feeling of doom just to go on a date. BUT. I threw her to the curb. Within days she found the next chump.
Reminds me of a conversation I had with some female friends of mine one day. They were amazed that men were dumping Cheryl Crow. “She’s rich, She’s beautiful, She’s a great musician, How could any man break up with her.”
To which I stated. “Maybe she’s a bitch.”
It never occurred to them.
You know some “men” like to be bullied. BDSM stuff is normal to these freaks. Reminds me of the swingers party I accidentally went to back in college..
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