So, now I get it, you're not a "he", you're the "her".
Usually on CW threads we get a snow-flake southern belle who comes on with strong assertions then hollers the equivalent of "rape!" when someone answers her too strongly.
She usually leaves us sputtering and befuddled, an effective tactic often repeated.
So, is that you aunte-belle?
Are you the one here to get her feeeeeeeeeeeelings hurt?
Well, if so, them I'm so so so so sorry about your hurt feeeeeeelings.
But aunte-belle, you disguised yourself sooooo cleverly behind the name "Jeffersondem" that I didn't recognize you this time.
Oh well... I'll try to do better next time, aunte-belle.
</sarc>
Just wow.
(Note to self: This is not pretty. The bludgeoning of BJK with facts and logic has gone too far. He has lost his ability to bob and weave. Enough. We must do what is right and give him time to regain composure.)