I've bought lots of diapers for single mom's because they chose to keep their babies instead of aborting them. I think I can help them in this small way but, it is a "choice" that weakens them, the kid(s) and society to normalize this. What is the best conservative, Christian thing to do?
Exactly what you are doing.
For the married, yank their chain when they start to complain about being "unhappy" and they're thinking of getting divorced. Divorce is hell on kids, and most women, when they remarry, marry *down*. For example, the real life woman in "How Stella Got Her Groove Back" married a 2nd husband who was a closet homosexual, and who according to some sources, was just using her for a green card.