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WHEN CANDIDATES ACT LIKE STALKERS
WilliamRussell.net ^ | 02/18/2016 | William Russell

Posted on 02/18/2016 10:23:44 AM PST by Bill Russell

Since candidates first started throwing their hats in the ring for the Republican Presidential nomination, I have been cheering for Ted Cruz as my first choice. There were also a number of candidates whom I would gladly support against the Democratic challengers. I really liked the way Donald Trump was electrifying the electorate and he was near the top of my list.

But that has changed. Trump is now at the bottom of my list.

As I have watched Donald Trump's attacks on Ted Cruz in recent weeks, and especially those in the last few days leading up to the South Carolina Primary, he has reminded me of the actions taken by the sociopath who stalked me and my family during and after my congressional campaigns in Pennsylvania in 2008 and 2010. What I now see occurring on the national level is a magnified reflection of what I experienced in my dealings with a petty grifter in a rural congressional district.

The last few weeks have seen a variety of vicious personal attacks with Trump calling Cruz a liar, accusing him of committing fraud in the Iowa Caucuses, stating that he is an "unstable" person, and threatening him with lawsuits over his eligibility. Trump's angry delivery of his denunciations of Cruz, his constant portrayal of himself as savoir of the republic and victim of Cruz's "lying" campaign ads (the ones using Trumps own statements and records against him), and his constant use of threats to attempt to intimidate Cruz, is reminiscent of my stalker's sociopathic behavior.

During the course of my dealings with my stalker, Larry (his real name), I had to do some quick research on sociopaths and their characteristics. Anyone can find a multitude of mental health websites that will explain that sociopaths are experts at appealing to our sympathies and convincing us that they really well meaning. They can be highly seductive and even have a special charisma. They usually blame others for their situations to maintain their charade of innocence and victimhood. They have defective consciences with an inability to feel empathy and lack remorse for wrongdoing. They are often inappropriate and give excessive attention to the objects of their sexual attraction. While usually smart, they often overestimate their own intelligence, are often unethical and immoral, but manage to avoid major run-ins with the law. They exhibit deceitfulness by lying and conning others with enough truth mixed in to make their stories plausible. But their downfall is their impulsiveness, irritability and aggressiveness - especially when their "mask of kindness" comes off. Unfortunately, they often wind up in positions of authority, because they crave power over others.

I first met Larry in late October of 2007 when he volunteered to join my campaign against the infamous King of Pork, John Murtha. He touted himself as combat Marine who was ticked off at Murtha's betrayal of the Haditha Marines and undermining of the troops in Iraq. He said he had decades of campaign experience and was the ideal person to be my campaign manager. I decided to give him a try on a volunteer basis. By late November it was clear that he was the wrong person to lead the campaign as his lack of organizational skills and attempts to intimidate people I wanted to win over were the absolute wrong fit for my campaign. We parted ways permanently on January 3, 2008 after Larry grew unhinged and threatening.

Immediately following our parting, Larry undertook a campaign of harassment which lasted beyond the course of my political runs against Mr Murtha and ended in late 2010. On a personal level, I received a constant barrage of threatening emails and harassing letters and phone calls threatening lawsuits, smears, and collections actions by Coastal Asset Recovery (Larry's collection agency). On the public level, Larry threatened to run against me in the 2008 primary, issued a false statement through a fake public relations firm stating that I had fired him for being a "disabled Vietnam Veteran with Agent Orange diabetes." He entered every possible online forum under false names to accuse me of slander/theft/lying and say he was suing me in federal court. He took the smallest of issues and extrapolated them into accusations of theft, fraud, and discrimination by me. He even went to work in a paid status for John Murtha, and created multiple websites to attack me including one fake website using my name to do personal attacks on the family of my primary opponent in 2010.

Fortunately for me, Larry did not have Mr Trumps billions of dollars, nor his bully pulpit with which to conduct his harassment of me. We were able to largely mitigate his attacks by ignoring him. But the parallels in Larry's and Mr Trump's behaviors are astounding. When I listen to Mr Trump's vicious and unfounded accusations against Ted Cruz, I am reminded of Larry's attempts to intimidate and threaten me on the night we parted company. As I listen to Trump's repeated threats of lawsuits, and his renewed threats to run as third party candidate, I cannot help but compare his behavior to Larry's continuous letters and emails threatening to sue me.

Mr Trump's repeated accusations over the Iowa Caucuses remind me of the false accusations Larry made against me and which were repeated by the Murtha Campaign. On the night of the Iowa Caucuses, CNN broadcast a story stating that Ben Carson was leaving Iowa just after the caucuses and not going immediately to New Hampshire as almost all of the other candidates were. CNN speculated that it could mean that Carson was leaving the race. The story became catnip thrown into the rough and tumble process of herding cats and votes in the open forums that are the Iowa Caucuses. All of the campaigns had access to the story and there were multiple reports that the story was used to persuade Carson voters to switch to other candidates, including Cruz. Mr Trump continues to tout the incident as if it was a massive and underhanded conspiracy on the part of Mr Cruz to steal votes from Ben Carson. Mr Trump's accusations appear to be no truer than when Larry took an unspecified expenditure line for $187,000 from one of my campaign's FEC reports to falsely accuse me of stealing that money from my campaign. Like Larry, Mr Trump appears to believe if he repeats a lie often enough, people will believe it.

Just this week, we have watched the story of a false Facebook page claiming to be Congressman Trey Gowdy denouncing Senator Marco Rubio and endorsing Ted Cruz. I cannot help but think of Larry's use of the false website using my name to conduct a dirty personal attack. The Rubio camp immediately responded by denouncing the post as a dirty trick from the Cruz campaign. The final truth on who was behind it may never be known, but I cannot help but think that it came from Trump or one of his supporters to try to bolster the Trump and Rubio mantras accusing Ted Cruz of lying.

Just like Larry, Mr Trump continues to pose as the victim of lies and mistreatment and threatens lawsuits for defamation or to challenge Cruz's Natural Born Citizenship. If Mr Trump does sue Ted Cruz, he will discover the truth is an absolute defense in a court of law, and the truth is on Cruz’s side. He will lose a defamation lawsuit because he actually said the words that Cruz is using against him in interviews and he supported and donated to the Democratic candidates he now says he is against. He will lose a challenge to Cruz's Natural Born Citizenship, because Cruz is a Natural Born Citizen in accordance with the Constitution and legal precedent. (If Trump really believed Ted Cruz to be ineligible, he would have already challenged him in court.)

If Mr Trump continues in his bombastic folly, he will face a very bright spotlight of public scrutiny which he has managed to avoid to this point. Ted Cruz's legal and Supreme Court credentials are far beyond any legal skill I could bring to the arena. But when Larry finally did get around to suing me through his collection agency in small claims court, he lost. Over the course of my dealings with him, I managed to find out enough about Larry to publicly expose his lies in the press, reveal his history of criminal investigations, bankruptcies, warrants, and lawsuits as well as his desertion from the Marine Corps. Three weeks after my fraud complaint to the District Attorney against Larry for his lawsuit, his collection agency was out of business.

In given circumstances, anyone is capable of cruelty, lying and extreme selfishness. But the sociopath makes a lifestyle of these traits. The best method of dealing with sociopaths is to recognize them early and avoid them. If you are already entangled with them, do whatever you can to protect yourself from further harm. I can only urge Republican voters to go with anyone but Trump. For even if Ted Cruz does not highlight the episodes of Mr Trump's life where he exhibited these traits on a grand scale, it is a sure bet the Democrats will if he is the nominee.

The DNC and media have plenty of Trump brand catnip to throw into that cat fight.


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To: mkjessup
They seem to think (Doug Ross, for example, and others) that FR is their personal free space and serves as an aggregator for Blogs.

FR is NOT, "Blog Pimps For Cruz", as they seem to think this is.

21 posted on 02/18/2016 10:52:43 AM PST by gg188 (Ted Cruz, R - Goldman Sachs)
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To: AuntB
Hi Aunt B. That link didn't work. Got another? If not, no problem, I'll search Slate.

Thank you for the good posts you make!!

22 posted on 02/18/2016 10:53:51 AM PST by gg188 (Ted Cruz, R - Goldman Sachs)
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To: Yashcheritsiy

On thing for sure, the Pope won’t have to worry if Cruz gets elected because he will never build a wall. Book it.


23 posted on 02/18/2016 10:55:15 AM PST by gg188 (Ted Cruz, R - Goldman Sachs)
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To: Yashcheritsiy
Damn someone did it again!

Don't you know when you refer to The Face of God, it is "Ted Cruz May His Name Always Be Blessed"?

24 posted on 02/18/2016 10:56:49 AM PST by gg188 (Ted Cruz, R - Goldman Sachs)
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To: AuntB

Digging through the Slate sewer trying to smear Cruz, eh?


25 posted on 02/18/2016 10:59:45 AM PST by Boogieman
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To: gg188

I am so sorry....it got cut off. This copy and paste and find a site to convert and pray for the best outcome is IRRITATING!

A History of Deception
The definitive timeline of what Ted Cruz said and did in the 2013 immigration debate.

http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/politics/2016/01/the_definitive_timeline_of_what_ted_cruz_said_and_did_in_the_2013_immigration.html


26 posted on 02/18/2016 11:01:47 AM PST by AuntB (Illegal immigration is simply more "share the wealth" socialism and a CRIME not a race!)
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To: Bill Russell

That I will do. Nothing personal Bill.


27 posted on 02/18/2016 11:04:00 AM PST by mkjessup (Say Ted? Glenn Beck says God snuffed Scalia so America will vote for you, GET RID OF HIM!)
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To: Boogieman

“Digging through the Slate sewer trying to smear Cruz, eh?”

ACtually, I originally posted it on an article posted by one of your Cruzer pals that was from SLATE. Found it when I went to his link!
http://freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/3398730/posts

Kill that messenger....but not one problem with the FACTS they present..typical!

PROOF Ted Cruz is lying about his immigration LEGALIZATION
http://www.slate.com/articles/news_and_politics/politics/2016/01/the_definitive_timeline_of_what_ted_cruz_said_and_did_in_the_2013_immigration.html


28 posted on 02/18/2016 11:06:29 AM PST by AuntB (Illegal immigration is simply more "share the wealth" socialism and a CRIME not a race!)
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To: Bill Russell

Thank you for your story! I hope people are praying [for this country].


29 posted on 02/18/2016 11:08:18 AM PST by mlizzy (America needs no words from me to see how your decision in Roe/Wade has deformed a great nation. -MT)
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To: gg188

Or, Ted Cruz (PBUH)


30 posted on 02/18/2016 11:08:18 AM PST by Yashcheritsiy (You can't have a constitution without a country to go with it)
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To: AuntB
Unlike Trump's 'BIG DOOR' touch-back amnesty policy...Ted Cruz won't let deportees back into America.

Sessions on Gang of Eight Amnesty: ...."Every Step of the Way, Ted Cruz Was on My Side.".....


31 posted on 02/18/2016 11:14:20 AM PST by caww
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To: AuntB

Don’t open the e-mails and you can always ask them to stop....question is why haven’t you? Further they aren’t all from Cruz...rather Packs and various other groups such as Tea party people etc.

A for RCC out to destroy Trump......he’s doing that all by himself so they don’t have to bother. All anyone hears from Trump are the same old worn out bizz clips without any substance or details how..

Building a wall....going after china, japan...I love everybody and they love me....I’m going to sue...I hit back...I’m very rich....on and on and on....PFTT!


32 posted on 02/18/2016 11:20:30 AM PST by caww
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To: AuntB

Did Rubio vote for the gang of 8? Yes.
Did Cruz? No.
Are you calling Jeff Sessions, Steve King and all the rest liars?


33 posted on 02/18/2016 11:23:37 AM PST by libbylu (Cruz: The truth with a smile.)
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To: ifinnegan

....”Trump really screwed up by going psycho and praising Uniparty elites”......

Changing ‘a judgment’ about a matter is not the same as saying something in order to get votes or win favor at the moment...I think Trump will lie, and does, for the moment just to get his hands into the “pie” ....and then distribute to his corporate buddies.

It’s obvious Trump believes everyone who disagrees with him is lying.....his paranoia is coming through strong in this past week and continues....everybody is against him....but what does the man expect when he alienates everyone including his followers.


34 posted on 02/18/2016 11:28:47 AM PST by caww
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To: Bill Russell

Ignore the complainers....it’s the mood they’re in 24/7 anymore.


35 posted on 02/18/2016 11:31:32 AM PST by caww
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To: reviled downesdad; Bill Russell

As far as I’m concerned, the last debate scene by Trump sounds just like what is described in this article. Then there are all the people he has alienated including the Pope today. I think Donald has problems (money not being one of them, of course)


36 posted on 02/18/2016 11:38:21 AM PST by depenzz ("Love doesn't make the world go around,it makes the ride worthwhile")
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To: reviled downesdad

Trump: .....”I’m very capable of changing to anything I want to change to.”.......

- “I would “press for universal health care, we have to do it”....(But I’m not for Universal Healthcare now, but I am.)

- “I’m pro-choice in every respect”....(I’m anti-abortion except for Planned parenthood.)

- “I hate the concept of guns,”....(Nobody favors guns like I do and both mys sons have guns”.)

- “Hillary does a good job in negotiating with Iran, I like her”.....(Hillary’s an idiot she doesn’t know what she’s doing)

- “the GOP is “just too crazy right”.....( They’re good people...no they treat me unfairly...yes, they’ve been fair...no they haven’t)

- In many cases, I probably identify more as a Democrat.”.....( I’m running as a Republican...no a Conservative...no a Common sense Conservative....It’s all the conservatives fault)


37 posted on 02/18/2016 11:46:48 AM PST by caww
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To: mlizzy

Thanks, mlizzy!


38 posted on 02/18/2016 11:49:31 AM PST by Bill Russell
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To: Bill Russell

Your post was right on the mark. As a young person I was the victim of a sociopathic stalker. It led to a violent assault that I feel very fortunate to have survived. I relied on God and my family to get on with my life, but I will never be able to forget what happened and it changed me forever in many ways. My attacker, who I once considered a “friend” and had known throughout grade school and high school, became increasingly bullying and conniving when I dared to be an independent adult with no need for him. It’s always all about CONTROL. My young innocent self optimistically trusted this person to have feelings of empathy and honesty, and it almost cost me my life....I’m sharing all this not to accuse Donald Trump of being a sociopath. I just agree with you that the CONTROL issues are there. He goes nuts when someone, like Ted Cruz, dares to cross him and always, always makes it about HIMSELF, the victim who is being lied about or treated unfairly. He is running for President first and foremost for his own ego and will not care one iota when promises to his followers are broken. Donald Trump is now the person who I will never vote for.


39 posted on 02/18/2016 11:53:00 AM PST by TerrisFriend
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To: depenzz

.....” Trump sounds just like what is described in this article”.....

HE should have some medication because he has not developed the skill set most with his personality have done who have been successful....but he won’t because his great need to be in control is Yuge....which is why he doesn’t drink, do drugs or use other vices...(except sex).

Nobody’s going to have bring Trump down...he cannot maintain this front into the general.....we better hope when he folds it’s in the Primary...otherwise the Demorats will take the general when he does. They’ve withheld the dirt they have on Trump which will destroy him if he makes it that far.....and they won’t use it til the general.


40 posted on 02/18/2016 11:54:25 AM PST by caww
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