True, but at least he was involved in the “decision”. I simply cannot buy into this notion that once conception exists, the decision is totally on the woman, should she choose to have it that way. Yes, weed out the dirt bags who could care less; those are not the situations I am concerned about. If the mother can unilaterally decide to abort while the father wants to keep, that is not right. Males/females were designed for basic purposes. When one can take that from the other, it is not right.
The big choice the guys need to make is to find the right lady. Some of that's easy for good guys. Don't sleep with married women to start with. If I cave into temptation and end up being in an unplanned situation, both my girl and I were raised a certain way. It would be time for me to buy a ring and man up. That's what she'd expect and what both our families would expect. Abortion wouldn't even be considered and I'd probably be shot, slapped, and kicked to the curb if I even suggested it (which I wouldn't).