The big choice the guys need to make is to find the right lady. Some of that's easy for good guys. Don't sleep with married women to start with. If I cave into temptation and end up being in an unplanned situation, both my girl and I were raised a certain way. It would be time for me to buy a ring and man up. That's what she'd expect and what both our families would expect. Abortion wouldn't even be considered and I'd probably be shot, slapped, and kicked to the curb if I even suggested it (which I wouldn't).
Agreed! The bigger issue is abortion. It should not be allowed but for some limited exceptions. That’d solve many problems.