I am probably very wrong here but I always thought the Italian mob’s rule was never to hurt children. You can whack a parent but not injured a child.
My rule is to shoot anybody threatening me or my family.
When they send a second waive, they get the same.
Funny thing about the Paisans. When they buy you, AND they did buy the Kennedys, they take it very badly when you don’t stay bought. But I really doubt they’d go after the kids.