You have no concept of what a "BA" believes(an attempt at insult of course from someone who denies its effectiveness). To someone truly born again(born above or whatever other metaphor you wish to invoke) there is no horror. You must die to the world(metaphorically) to be born from above(to use your metaphor).
The problem is that the BA philosophy seeks to curtail God, to limit him. And BAs seem to forget Matt 7:21