That is your right. My point is that there actually are rules - written or not - that a large number of us understand to be "how things work." Unless and until we hear differently that's how I intend to behave.
You and humblegunner have different issues, I think. You two can hammer that out between yourselves.
Those pseudo "rules" have evolved over the last 6 months or so via humblegunner and gang who have considered this all a sport. IMO.