To paraphrase one of the corniest lines from “Casablanca”:
“Who is butterdezillion, monsieur? butterdezillion is the kind of woman that, if I were a man, I should be in love with butterdezillion.”
Loved EVERY word of your ramble, butter. Keep on, keeping on.
You are most gracious.
The quickest way for me to get my husband to fall asleep rather than act in love with me is to talk about this stuff. lol
I don’t know. Maybe it’s a guy thing. I talk and he falls asleep. So then I roll over and shut up and he immediately perks up. lol. Different priorities, maybe...
Very few of the people I know who work with this issue have spouses who are also engaged with the issue. Maybe there just has to be one sane person in the family. lol