I'd have a lot more respect for pro-lifers if you demonstrated that you cared about babies after they're born.
Whats that suppose to mean?
You must be advocating social welfare right?
After all it is the governments resposibility to provide us with everything right?
Sorry but before government welfare people had kids and took care of them and we dont need a nanny state, but we do need a state that protects innocent life.
I'm a registered Democrat, I've voted Democrat in every election since I was old enough to vote
Pro-lifers are far from hypocrites
If youve paid any attention to the abortion debate, youve heard some variant of an already old chestnut: Anti-choicers want all these babies born, but they dont want to adopt them, help the mothers, do social work or pay higher taxes. Theyre part of the problem. That accusation may come from rhetorical expedience or simple ignorance, but those who make it have never met Sherrie Bicksler.
Bicksler is the director of the Freeport Pregnancy Center, in Freeport, Illinois, and caring for disadvantaged mothers and children is her full-time job. The Centers staff (mostly volunteers) provides assistance, prayer and listening ears to hundreds of clients each year. They have personal contact with between 175 and 200 clients per month, including 35-40 new clients. They offer free and confidential pregnancy tests and can refer a client to other agencies for any need, from education to domestic violence counseling.
The aim is to show Gods love, to be, as Bicksler says, Jesus with skin on in the clients hour of crisis. Donations are accepted as from God, she observes, and He always makes sure it goes to someone who needs it." For example, five times in the last four years shes seen Center supporters completely equip and furnish the apartments of formerly homeless clients with donated items. She credits the success to the Centers dedicated prayer team.
Yet this special place isnt unique. The Center is a member of CareNet, an organization of over 700 pregnancy centers across the United States and Canada. Each is a place where a woman backed into a corner can find kindness and real solutions. Its not unique in our area, where a Yahoo search on abortion alternatives brings up 16 results within 50 miles. Strangely, a search on Planned Parenthood soup kitchens returned no results.
Pregnancy centers arent the only area pro-lifers impact. I look around my church, and I see mentors, volunteers for NHS and the school district, people who preach in nursing homes and jails. If all the pro-lifers in town gave up on helping the least of these, how would it all get done? Pro-lifers also put their parenting where their mouth is and adopt. A member of our county Right to Life Committee wrote, We are not, by any means, wealthy financially; but the love and joy our adopted child has brought into our life makes us rich indeed. We asked for a special needs child; we found the only special need the child had was the need for a loving family.
Even if pro-lifers werent devoting themselves to making lives better, would they be such hypocrites? If you dont have to be a civil rights activist to be outraged about a lynching, why would you have to adopt a handicapped child before you could legitimately object to childrens lives being snuffed out? Its thick irony that the vast majority of pro-choicers are political liberals. For decades, theyve told us that we need ever more bloated government programs to take care of every need of the downtrodden. Yet when some of us want to put a stop to the killing of small children, they demand to know why we havent handled all the problems they said the state would cure.
So why does the myth of the uninvolved pro-lifer exist? Sadly, such wordplay is all that is left for the advocates of abortion. In the age of ultrasound, one cant really argue that a fetus isnt a baby. Its easier to say that your opponents are hypocrites who should shut up, but like so many other pro-abortion arguments, it collapses immediately upon contact with facts.
I wont pretend supporters of abortion never do anything to help the community. Still, it strikes me that community service is often prescribed as punishment for non-violent criminals. Since abortion is violent, but not technically criminal, perhaps area pro-aborts could throw in a few extra hours each week to atone for the blood this vaunted right has cost us. Roll up your sleeves, folks: there are about 4,000 abortions per day, and youre already 40,000,000 kids behind.