I'd be happy to trade positions with my wife. She does most of the housework, has no job and we have no kids. I work 50-60 hrs/week, do some housework and manage all of our finances (including active investments like rental properties which are a lot of work to self manage). If I could have my wife make $300k/yr and I could sit at home, I'd make sure the house was always spotless and cook every single meal.
I hope you have a good plan worked out with her in case you are suddenly incapacitated or worse. You don't want to leave her without a clue how to manage, or much of your hard work may go down the tube.