They they get to feel burned, sad, disappointed? "Is this all there is? Because if this is all there is...."
Then they get lesbianized. Y'know?
Are there any decent college men who can show them there is another way to relate, or are they all in the same boat?
It’s not just the young girls. Try being thin, pretty and early to mid-40s with no children. They seem to think they are poised to attract a great man who will sex them up, travel to Europe, pay for hair extensions, botox, nails etc. When nobody wants them it really screws with their heads. I happen to find two of them, just gorgeous I don’t care about their age. Whew...
Also I should know about this type of lady I’ve dated a few haha. At 48 I might decide the world needs a couple more little white “techworkers” so unless she knocks me off my feet... Gotta maintain my race. I was considering a 20-something Filipina but the race-aware person in me is fine with her having little girls but none from me. If I want to have kids I’ll stick with my people.
Plus since I’m honest and encouraged them to go find Mr. Beta Bucks, they still like to maintain an semi-frequest physical relationship where I get to here the horror stories. They end up struggling on the future partner search so they contact me “Chad Techworker” to see if I want to hang out for a bit.. Uhhh Sure, I’d love to...
If I’d led them on that I wanted marriage then I’d be the total jerk that women speak of. As it stands I’m in the “he’s a good guy, too soon to commit” category. Of course I have a 24.5 year marriage history before cancer made me widowed... It’s just that after being widowed I resumed my HS days of being a ladies man. I don’t regret my being married, but right now I’m not. I was a total manwhore from 16-22 and settled down when I was smitten. At my age get a real charge over having a little fling with someone 4-5 years older than my oldest son.
Worked in college counseling over twenty five years ago and that was true.
I proposed providing workshops to help the young women have some boundaries around their sexual relations. it was kyboshed. it wasn’t politically correct.
Please tell me you’re not serious with this post.