When I worked in hotel kitchens, I had a lot of friends of Mexican heritage. All were married or had a girlfriend but all were willing to fool around with any woman at the drop of a hat. And that was ok in their world. One time I did something no one should do - ask jokingly to a Mexican guy with a sharp knife in his hand if his wife could fool around too. Nearly got my Carotid aerated. Kind of a man’s world.
Yes, too bad they weren’t like upstanding U.S. men like Bill Clinton.
When the Bronze Horde invaded my town (it is probably over 50% Hispanic now), there was a lot of friction in the local bars because the braceros would come in, get wasted, and bother any woman who wasn’t accompanied by a man (including female bartenders). I wouldn’t say they were “horny”; they were just rude and had accepted the fact that American women had 0 interest in them. Many of the Hispanic women themselves were working on their anchor babies, so they never showed up in any numbers.
Eventually the Americans paying them under the table ran out of money anyway, and the braceros moved on to greener pastures elsewhere (leaving their anchor baby bastards for us Americans to feed, clothe, shelter, and school).
This is an absolutely true statement. They believe they have the right to fool around if they wish. Even TALKING about whether their woman/wife can do so is an open door to violence.
Actually, that attitude it’s pretty much world wide.
my daughter is in missions in Nicaragua and Guatemala and states that marriage down there does not have any component of fidelity for the males.