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Cleavage: What's Appropriate, What's Not
ABCNews ^ | May 29, 2007 | staff reporter

Posted on 05/30/2007 1:26:52 PM PDT by Daffynition

The weather's getting warmer and necklines are dipping lower -- sometimes, too low.

From the beach to the mall to the office, women seem to be showing off their cleavage more than ever before. Why? According to Elisabeth Squires, author of "Boobs: A Guide to Your Girls," American breasts are getting bigger while shirts are getting smaller.

"We are seeing more cleavage these days for a few reasons. First, the fashion of the day is tight and skinny. At the same time, women are bigger than they were even 15 years ago. Bra fitters tell me that an E cup is the new C cup," Squires said on "Good Morning America."

"We have to remember that while more women are showing more cleavage, you really have to use your breast power responsibly," Squires said.

What's Appropriate When

What looks sexy for a night out on the town may not be appropriate in the workplace. In fact, Squires said cleavage should never make an appearance in the office.

"It's way too big of a distraction for men and women," she said. "If cleavage isn't in your job description, don't put it in."

But that doesn't mean breasts should stay hidden. According to Squires, the appearance of breasts can help women in the workplace.

"A recent study showed men photos of women in a workplace with large breasts showing cleavage, medium breasts and small breasts. When asked about who looked most professional and personable, the men chose the women with medium-sized breasts," she said.

"You don't have to be flat-chested to be taken seriously," she added. "You just have to be proportionate. For women who are small busted, that may mean a little padding. For well-endowed women, that may mean a minimizer."

Squires suggested that women also keep things respectable at family events, like a kids' soccer game.

"This is not the time to show off your girls," she said. "Your children should not have to compete with your cleavage for attention."

Night is prime time to bring out breasts, but Squires suggested women treat their cleavage as part of their outfit -- not a focal point.

"You can certainly be a bit more daring," she said. "This presumably is adult time, and cleavage is powerful. This is the time to use it. But they should be part of your whole look."

Pregnant women are an exception to the rules. Squires said because pregnancy gives breasts a boost they might not have otherwise, women should show them off.

"During pregnancy you should celebrate your breasts. For some women, that's the only time they have cleavage," she said. "Obviously you don't want to go nuts. But cleavage on a pregnant woman is just different -- live it up a bit."

Squires said women of a certain age can still show off cleavage, as 61-year-old Helen Mirren proved at the Oscars.

"It has to be integrated into your entire look," she said. "If a woman of a certain age squeezes her girls together, she'll get the wrinkled, crepelike look. That's not good. But if you're older and you wear a scoop neck and you have beautiful, what the French call decollete, that's great."

Tips for Every Woman

Squires offered advice all women can heed to make their breasts look better:

Don't be in bra denial. The average woman changes bra sizes at least seven times in her life. Get fitted and accept your number and cup size.

Think outside the bra. A strong back and shoulders -- good carriage -- makes your whole body look better, including your breasts. Don't concentrate so much on your underwiring. Concentrate on the rest of your body.

Be good to your girls. Breasts are unique, and the truth is that men love them all. Be more accepting of your body. Most women think breasts only come in two sizes: too big or too small. It's not true. They're beautiful; be good to them.


TOPICS: Heated Discussion
KEYWORDS: cleavage; decorum; fashion; modesty; moralabsolutes; professionaldress
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To: agent_delta

“In my heart.....”

I just can’t do it. I’ll have to come up with something original.


101 posted on 05/30/2007 2:29:13 PM PDT by dashing doofus (Those who are too smart to engage in politics are punished by being governed by those who are dumber)
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To: dashing doofus
Watch out ...I have a whole closet full of Nunzillas to launch in case you get too rowdy.


102 posted on 05/30/2007 2:29:47 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: agent_delta; Finger Monkey

You gonna make me arrest you for indecent exposure?

Again?


103 posted on 05/30/2007 2:30:16 PM PDT by Larry Lucido (Duncan Hunter 2008 (or Fred Thompson if he ever makes up his mind))
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To: al baby

Christina Aguellera


104 posted on 05/30/2007 2:31:02 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: rainbow sprinkles


105 posted on 05/30/2007 2:31:47 PM PDT by Slings and Arrows ("I AM A SEXY SHOELESS GOD OF WAR!!!" --http://www.giantitp.com/comics/oots0439.html)
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To: al baby

What a waste.

One should be in back.


106 posted on 05/30/2007 2:32:07 PM PDT by Larry Lucido (Duncan Hunter 2008 (or Fred Thompson if he ever makes up his mind))
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To: rainbow sprinkles

Free the puppies!


107 posted on 05/30/2007 2:33:47 PM PDT by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: DCPatriot

Charisma. That rare, intangible, indefinable quality all girls with big breasts have...


108 posted on 05/30/2007 2:33:48 PM PDT by PzLdr ("The Emperor is not as forgiving as I am" - Darth Vader)
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To: bedolido

I’m usually thinking inside the bra....


109 posted on 05/30/2007 2:34:55 PM PDT by PzLdr ("The Emperor is not as forgiving as I am" - Darth Vader)
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To: HungarianGypsy
What's in fashion confuses me too.


110 posted on 05/30/2007 2:35:32 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: tet68


111 posted on 05/30/2007 2:37:30 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: Slings and Arrows
I am ashamed now.


112 posted on 05/30/2007 2:38:42 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: rainbow sprinkles

Example of BAD CLEAVAGE!!


113 posted on 05/30/2007 2:39:37 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: rainbow sprinkles

Really? Are y’all hiring?


114 posted on 05/30/2007 2:39:40 PM PDT by BJClinton (Jimmy Carter: the Renaissance Man of incompetence)
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To: al baby

Breasts are like martinis. Three is too many.


115 posted on 05/30/2007 2:40:02 PM PDT by PzLdr ("The Emperor is not as forgiving as I am" - Darth Vader)
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To: PzLdr
HAHAHA!

“Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You can't stare at it long, it's too risky. You get a sense of it then you look away.”

116 posted on 05/30/2007 2:40:36 PM PDT by Daffynition (A conclusion is the place where you got tired of thinking.)
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To: DCPatriot
You had to go and post that in this thread????????

LOL!!!

117 posted on 05/30/2007 2:41:02 PM PDT by doorgunner69
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To: doorgunner69

Well...had to put the title in proper context! LOL!


118 posted on 05/30/2007 2:42:32 PM PDT by DCPatriot ("It aint what you don't know that kills you. It's what you know that aint so" Theodore Sturgeon))
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To: rainbow sprinkles
"I can see your dirty pillows. Everyone will."

"Breasts, Mama. They're called breasts, and every woman has them."

119 posted on 05/30/2007 2:42:39 PM PDT by GSWarrior
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To: stylecouncilor

ping


120 posted on 05/30/2007 2:42:57 PM PDT by windcliff
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