No offense, but in all honesty, Mr. Schiavo violated the sanctity of marriage when he started to date women and then proceeded to live with one of them.
What is the sanctity of marriage if one party can opt to date and/or live with another person while still married to the one he married?
I do hope you know that the Schindlers recommended that he start to date other women and even asked to meet future girlfriends. They told him it was time to get on with his life. Just a point, in the interest of fairness.
Oh, and the State of Michigan is drafting legislation right now so that cheating spouses will not be able to make life and death decisions for their husband or wife.
If your kids are looking for career options I'd recommended attorneys with an eye toward a future judgeship or private detective if they don't do that well in school.
Because we're going to need a lot more of both with the direction this is all headed.