Posted on 04/19/2012 11:58:25 AM PDT by NYer
I can personally attest to this. When I left two different parishes, not one of them ever contacted me. In fact, I ran into the pastor from one of those parishes who struck up a conversation about the parish but never asked why I had left, nor did he invite me to return.
The pastor at my current parish, has called and personally visited all the previous parishioners. Many of them have returned. It does make a difference.
The most frequent answer you will get from a Knight of Columbus about why he joined is “I was asked”.
Threaten them with Hell Fire and Damnation like the Baptists do.
The Catholics that I know left because of the false doctrine of Rome.. I tried to stay after I was saved but the more I studied scripture the more I realized that Rome does not line up with it.. finally I had to go .
It is very easy to get an ‘annulment” from the church... Most of the people in the pews use or used birth control ...the church is full of gays..including a large part of their priests..
So those issues are non issues.. things like the mass, prayer to saints..a deified Mary,a non biblical priesthood and mass..those are marks of a man made church..not the church of Jesus Christ..so we leave
The pastor at my current parish, has called and personally visited all the previous parishioners. Many of them have returned. It does make a difference.
Easy enough in a small parish, but we have over 4,000 family registered at ours. Not easy for our pastor to contact each one of them, let alone realize when somebody leaves. For some reason, I am still receiving parish news, raffle tickets, donation envelopes from my previous parish ... we moved parishes over 7 years ago.
Locally, the parishes just can't keep up with who's coming and who's going.
>>In fact, I ran into the pastor from one of those parishes who struck up a conversation about the parish but never asked why I had left, nor did he invite me to return. <<
At my old parish, they were happy as a clam to have me gone. No one contacted me because they were thrilled that I was out of their hair. Just too orthodox for the Happy Catholic staff.
Sometimes, they know why you left and are glad you’re gone.
On the other hand, my husband said that he started to consider converting when my current Pastor, learning that the hubby was Presbyterian, invited him to mass anyway. Down to giving him a CCC and telling him that if he felt uncomfortable sitting in the pew for Communion, he was more than welcome to come up for a blessing. Just cross his arms before kneeling down and the Priest would know what to do.
We are very blessed.
Yep.
I left when they brought out the guitar music and the awful weekly missals with bad art and the sermons on the song “The Sounds of Silence.” That was about 1971. Luckily, we have many beautiful churches in New York City that still have the spiritual mystery and glamor that is so important to those of us who grew up in pre-Vatican II.
I believe your case is covered under “Church teachings.” The article is about other issues.
>>Most of the people in the pews use or used birth control ...the church is full of gays..including a large part of their priests..<<
Wow! Aren’t you blessed to have found a congregation of perfect people! Amazing!
Me? I’m a sinner, big time. I’d rather spend my worship time with the flawed. It makes me feel welcome.
Nah, we don’t want folks who reject Christ’s divinity. Goodbye to them and good riddance..
-—the more I studied scripture the more I realized that Rome does not line up with it.. finally I had to go.-—
Fortunately for you, your interpretation of Scripture is infallible, and you have no need of correction from any source, outside of the Bible, which was communicated directly to you by God.
I can’t figure out why you bother posting. You’re already saved, so why bother with us reprobates?
A lovely bigoted post! It’s very hard to believe you were once a Catholic. I’m a lapsed Catholic and still find your remarks repulsive.
My favorite poster - Cronos - is here. Give ‘em hell, Cronos.
Exactly my situation. As I've said before, when I first got saved and felt the need to start attending church again, I went BACK to the Catholic church since that was the church I was raised in. But the same thing happened to me. I saw the discrepancy between what was taught there and what is blatantly obvious from just a careful reading of Scripture that I had never read before.
I had no preconceived notions of what to expect out of Scripture. Well, except what the Catholic church taught me. But then I saw the conflict between what it taught and what Scripture said and that was enough for me.
You believe what you believe and I what I believe.
We are both about 70 years so it won't be long and we will find out the real truth about God.
If you are right, pray for me, as I will do for you.
If that were true it would be funny. Sadly, it's not.
>So those issues are non issues.. things like the mass, prayer to saints..a deified Mary,a non biblical priesthood and mass..those are marks of a man made church..not the church of Jesus Christ..so we leave<
Didn’t Jesus hold a “mass” the night before he was crucified? If God became a man and stepped into our world, was the last supper considered “man-made’?
Thank you.
If you’re ever in the Detroit area, drop me a FReepmail and you can join us for Mass.
You’re always welcome!
(we even have screened confessions before EVERY mass, for your sacramental pleasure)
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